
It can be hard to unhook from procrastination, which is why I’m giving you a simple process to help your child initiate tasks. You will be teaching them a critical life skill, self-confidence, and a growth mindset.
Here’s my proven process to help kids get going when they are stuck n procrastination mode:
- Recognize that ,any kids simply don’t have the skills to get going. A big job or even a small task can seem overwhelming to them.
- Work with your child to break down the task into its smallest steps.
- Ask, “how does doing one small step feel?” If it’s still too hard, tell them they only have to do it for the length of a song or a 5 minute timer.
- Remind your child of a time when they independently started something and it worked out well. Imprint those moments of success by retelling those stories. That will help build your child’s self-belief.
- Create routines for tasks that are a recurring problem. Even if there’s kicking and screaming when you start the routine (i.e. laundry or screen-free Saturday), eventually it will become second nature.